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Chris Pender CEO believes purpose is the key to the passage way to success.
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Faculty and student response to programming facilitated by Fam. Com.
Our Projects!
Norristown Project - Restorative Circles/ Small Group Mentoring
Fam, Com is facilitating a mentoring program in the Norristown School District.
Fam, Com is offering virtual workshops and mentoring programs for interested individuals and organizations.
Mentoring Training's
Have you ever thought about becoming a Mentor? Would like to learn what it takes to become a successful Mentor? If your answer is yes, sign up for our Mentor Training program. We offer virtual training's.
Virtual Programs
"The Community of Men" meet every Monday 7 pm - 8:30 pm through Zoom. Men from throughout the country encourage, support and share with one another on various topics.
Fam.Com virtual Projects:
* Parenting workshops with the NET.
* Fatherhood workshops with Focus on Fathers.
Fatherhood / When Grown Men Play Hide & Seek
Fam. Com is facilitating workshops for Focus on The Fathers (PHMC), The Net (DHS) and Black Womens Alliance. "When Grown Men Play Hide & Seek." speaks to the absentee fathers,
Testimonies
Darla R. Holley-Holmes MPACT Program Coordinator (Monessen Positive Action Community Team)
I found this virtual teaching to be as if not more effective as an in-person, face to face teaching. Mr. Pender is an expert in explaining the concept of Positive Action while encouraging and engaging students to become the very best they can be, to dream big and do better to be better. It is fitting that Mr. Pender’s professional virtual teaching shares and embodies the same root as “virtue”, Latin word “virtus” meaning “excellence.”
Mathilda Spencer, Ph.D. Associate Professor of Criminal Justice Department of Social Sciences
I am writing this letter for several reasons but first and foremost to thank you for the guidance and training you have provided to me and my staff regarding the implementation of the Positive Action program. You have provided vital information that will be used to make our program strong and effective as we, like you, work to provide guidance to our youth.
The second reason for this letter is to commend you on your responsiveness to our needs. You sir are a “servant leader”. You are someone that is led by a calling to help others and model the behavior that you wish to see in others. I commend you for your leadership, your willingness to serve, and your ability to provide excellent training to those just entering the field and provide a refresher for those of us that have been working in the field for some time. It takes a talented person to hold the attention of someone who is in the business of teaching and you not only did so, but you stimulated thinking and involvement.
In conclusion, if given a chance I will highly recommend you and the training that you provide to anyone that is interested. Your subject knowledge, delivery, and willingness to offer guidance as we implement the program has been exceptional. Thank you for sharing your expertise with us and your continued involvement with us as we continue this journey of working with our youth. California University of Pa.
Josh -SOS Conference
"The S.O.S. conference provided me with a new perspective on the control I have over my future. My choices today impact my tomorrow."
David - Fatherhood Program
"The Fatherhood program opened my eyes to the importance of not just being present, but being engaged and active in my children's lives. Changed me forever."
CEO, Chris Pender, Sr. MHS & COO, Debbie Pender
Purpose, Passion and Power is the fuel for a successful life.
The mission of Fam, Com. (Families & Communities on the Move) is to assist families, young people, parents, and couples in gaining the necessary skills to have a positive impact on their communities, schools, society and within their personal sphere of influence.
Living a life dedicated to serving others and assisting them to reach their potential and discover their purpose is our life's mission.
A Philosophy for the Future
The educational and philosophical design for the program will be guided by five principles that lie at the heart of what we believe to be true about our students, our community, and how children learn. They are firmly based in both research and the recommendations for educational reform contained in the most influential national reports.
Principle 1- High Expectations: We will promote the high academic expectations.
Principle 2 - Holistic Environment: Our program will be enriched by a unique holistic nature of the program that encompasses the student, staff, school officials, family and the rich social setting in which it is located.
Principle 3 - Integrated Learning: We will provide learning experiences that highlight the academic challenges of the ever changing business by emphasizing the natural connections within and among all disciplines.
Principle 4 - Active Learning: Our students will be challenged to build knowledge and meaning through active learning experiences such as inquiry, exploration, and peer interaction.
Principle 5 - Positive Attitudes: Program staff will partner with the school and partners to foster creativity, originality, self-esteem, a sense of wonder and excitement about learning. Self-esteem is a combination of a person's efficacy and worth.
Workshops and Keynotes
As an award-winning speaker and innovator, I will bring new life and connection to your next event.
Contact me, and we can design a workshop or presentation that fits the needs that you have today.
The Fam, Com team offers a wide range of workshops on various topics such as Fatherhood, Parenting, Youth Development, Healthy Relationships/ Healthy Marriages, How to Raise a Positive child in a Negative World, and many custom workshops for all ages.
Let us design and develop a mentoring program complete with curriculum for you that speaks to your unique specific needs.
Pastor Christopher A. Pender, Sr. MHS
CEO- Founder- Workshop Facilitator- Motivational Speaker
Christopher A Pender, Sr. is a native North Philadelphian educated in the Philadelphia Public School system. Chris has been married for 35 years and has four children. He holds a Master’s degree in Human Services from Lincoln University.
In October 2010 he was awarded the 2010 NAACP Extraordinary Citizens award. Other certifications include Rutgers University (Camden Campus) Early Childhood Education, National Fatherhood Initiative 24/7 Dads - Dr. Dad, and P.A.I.R.S (Marriage/Relationship Counseling) as well as being a member of The National Mentoring Children of Purpose Advisory Board in Washington DC. The Chester State Correctional Institute awarded Chris with the Volunteer Award in 2009 for his work with the SCI population.
Chris has accumulated over twenty-five years of experience working with young people, Families and Fathers in several different capacities such as coach, mentor and facilitator.
A few of his greatest accomplishments include writing a book, designing curriculum on such topics as Fatherhood, Healthy Relationships, Vision/Purpose, and Choices & Consequences. Other projects that provide a sense of pride for Chris is creating workshops on various topics, designing a re-entry program for incarcerated individuals, creating a Job Readiness Program, designing an academic enrichment summer camp and authoring a Thesis on “The Absentee Dad Through abandonment, death, and incarceration.”
Chris also created an after-school / summer program for youth between the ages of 8-15. Helping Youth Prepare Effectively (H.Y.P.E) equips today’s young people with the tools needed to become individuals of character who are prepared to become leaders for the next generation.
Chris believes just as George Washington Carver wrote, “No individual has any right to come into this world and go out without leaving behind him legitimate and distinct reasons for having passed through it.” “My legitimate reason for being here on earth is to make a difference in the lives of the next generation and their families in a positive way.”
Christopher A. Pender, Jr
Director of Youth Engagement - Workshop Facilitator
Chris Pender, Jr. has always had a passion for athletics and working with youth since he was a senior in high school. He played Junior Varsity baseball for two years and Varsity basketball for two years.
As a senior at Cheltenham High School, he was actively involved in working with youth. Chris was a math and character development instructor for a program named H.Y.P.E. (Helping Youth Prepare Effectively) in which he tutored 7th and 8th grade students in math. He also instructed character development courses in which he led discussions on numerous topics such as education, having goals, the importance of working hard, and many other topics.
Chris attended Mansfield University on a partial basketball scholarship. While in college he was one of the top 3-point shooters in the PSAC and nationally. At the end of his college career, he ended up as one of the all-time career three pointer shooters in Mansfield history. He graduated in 2010 with a degree in Psychology and concentration in Human Resource Management. While in college during his summer breaks of school, Chris would come back and coach middle school students for an organization named C.A.N. (Cheltenham Achievement Network) in basketball leagues/tournaments throughout the city of Philadelphia. He was once a member of this organization which he felt was instrumental to his success in athletics and pursuing higher education. This organization is one of the many influences that inspired him to form an organization that will combine athletics, education, and character development.
Chris’ goal is not only to get young athletes to learn the value of hard work to perform at a high level, but encourage the same effort of achievement in education.
Chris has developed a passion for helping children with Special Needs experience athletics while gaining the confidence needed to experience personal success.
Nicole McFadden
Director of Community Engagement / Workshop Facilitator
Over the past seven years, Nicole Pender has tied her life’s passion for helping others to her professional work through career experiences in professional sports, nonprofit management, government affairs and corporate philanthropy. Nicole has sharpened her skills while working with the Ronald McDonald House, The Delaware 87'ers and Habitat for Humanities. Nicole has invested her personal time in causes such as feeding the Homeless.
A graduate of Mansfield University of PA, class of 2011 where she was Division II Women’s basketball player where she established herself in three years by joining the teams list of assist and steal leaders.
Nicole currently serves as the Community Engagement Program Manager for Alfred I. DuPont Nemours Children’s Hospital, where she strives to create programming to service undeserved and overlooked populations of youth across the Delaware Valley.
Nicole loves to work with young ladies sharing with them the skills and temperament to be successful.
Devin A. Pender
Marketing Team Leader
Devin is a graduate of Cheltenham High school who went on to receive his Bachelors Degree in Marketing and Business from Bloomsburg University.
Devin has been active in C.A.N. (Cheltenham Achievers Network) H.Y.P.E (Helping Youth Prepare Effectively) which provides him with a unique insight to the value of our programs to individuals, communities, families and organizations. Devin was a member of the Club Volleyball Team at Bloomsburg University in Bloomsburg Pa.
Devin's' creativity and understanding of the relevance and importance Marketing and Social Media is vital to the Growth and vision of Fam, Com.
Fatherhood
Father, Role Model, Mentor, Leader & Spiritual covering
Fatherhood is so much more than being a contributor to the conception of a child. Fatherhood is more than just providing financial support or a day at the ballgame. Fatherhood is about sowing seeds and investing yourself, your time, your resources and heartfelt love in your child.
Fatherhood is a lifetime commitment.
Fatherhood, Pass it on!
F: Faithful- We as men must be faithful to our families and God.
A: Aware of the damage we cause when we go into hiding.
T: Tactician, we must have a plan and strategy for our families.
H: Honest with God, self and others on what we need to change.
E: Endurance, fatherhood/manhood is a journey in time.
R: Responsible for self and all whom to are called to lead.
Men of Character
Being a man of character is not just for fathers. Being a man of character should be a priority for all men as they travel through life. Men of character leave behind powerful legacies through their children and others they encounter as the journey through life.
Youth Workshop's
Hood Philosophy 101
Hood Philosophy 101 focuses on critically analyzing the ins and outs of urban communities through hip-hop music, poetry/spoken word, specifically def poetry, and current events.
The topics discussed are, but are not limited to, selling drugs & the reason why (economics in the inner city), drug addiction, violence (conflict resolution and/or the lack thereof), police brutality, systematic racism, and urban education.
With these topics, there are discussions around why this is the current state of the “hood” and what can be done to change the reality of the “hood”. Hood Philosophy 101 is an extremely engaging and interactive course that makes the wheels turn in one’s mind.
Learn More
At Fam, Com we believe there is no greater investment than investing in the next generation of leaders and purpose filled individuals.
We offer a wide variety of relevant workshops that inspire, engage, educate and equip participants with the tools needed to be change agents.
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Programs At A Glance
H.Y.P.E. (Helping Youth Prepare Effectively)
Students will receive interactive training to give them an understanding of leadership and the necessity of leaders in their current and future environments. Developmental areas will include but not limited to; communications, goal setting, decision making, self awareness, leadership styles, and time management.
Lead By Example: Character Education
This program uses a curriculum designed to engage youth in weekly conversations to discuss Character, The Influence of Character and its effect on self and the next generation, How do I confront and manage my anger, Guilt and Shame (dealing with my past mistakes), The impact of the Media (How the media impacts and influences my decision making process), Improving Communication (A better way of life), Healthy Relationships (The importance of maintain healthy relationships that help and not hinder me), My Culture My Identity (Preparing for when Business meets culture), Developing a Support System (The importance of a mentor and or a Positive Role model), The Leader In Me ( Fulfilling the role as leader).
How to Raise a Positive Child in a Negative World
The Media plays a significant role in the information youth are exposed to. This workshop will provide parents and guardians with the skills to the compass which guides your child towards success.
Interviewing and presenting.
We compete globally for careers as technology has made the world a smaller more competitive environment.
Participants will learn how to present themselves professionally, dress for success and articulate why they are the best candidate for a particular career.
Learn how to create and facilitate a Mentoring Program.
It goes without saying that as a mentor, you're regarded as an expert in your field or area of responsibility. But it's one thing to know what you're doing; it's entirely another to be able to clearly explain what you know--and to be willing to take the time to do it.
It takes two to have a successful relationship.
Workshops for married couples, soon to be married couples, and those seeking to be in a healthy relationship.
Before you invest in a house or car, invest in your relationship.
Programs At A Glance
Race, Culture and my Identity matter.
Understanding who you are, how your race, culture and identity contribute to the fabric of America. You were created for a purpose and you do matter.
People of Destiny
Destiny is not a matter of chance but a matter of choice. We make choices everyday that either move us closer or further away from our destiny.
People of Change
Become a person who orchestrates positive change.
C = Create a new mindset
H = Help others by investing your time
A= Awareness of individual &
community needs.
N = Never give in or give up.
G = Give of your self and your time.
E = Energize those around you through
your work ethic and attitude.
Communication & Conflict
Often conflict arises out of poor communication. The way we say things are equally important as what we say.
Body language, tone, attitude and the method of delivery often contribute to disagreements in Marriage, partnerships and relationships. Success and failure often hinge on our ability to communicate properly.
Getting Into Position
Effective Leaders learn what personal obstacles prohibit them from fulfilling their destiny. A leaders failure to recognize his or her personal obstacles and short-comings ultimately fail or lead others astray.
Purpose, Power & Passion
Do you know that you were created with purpose? Do you understand that you have a reason to be here on earth?
Your purpose will provide power in your life that will drive your passion to succeed.
Programs At A Glance
The Power of Change
Change takes place in our lives when we began to change how we think as individuals. More individuals live a life of broken promises, missed opportunities, shattered dreams and disappointment because of their failure to change how they think. It’s like looking into a mirror and trying to escape the image in the mirror. No matter how many attempts you make, no matter how much effort you put into out maneuvering your image it is impossible. It is just as impossible to change your circumstances or destiny without changing the way you think. Stinking thinking promotes failure, excuses and regrets. This workshop provides participants with a working knowledge of how to implement positive change in their lives.
Choices & Consequences
Is what feels good necessarily the right choice? This workshop lays a foundation for those that follow, by helping individuals consider how the choices they make now will impact them for years to come. Participants will also be equipped with strategies for setting goals and making better decisions.
My Anger, Am I in Control?
Anger is a powerful emotion that often seems impossible to control. In this workshop participants will discuss the consequences of allowing one’s anger to control his/her actions. Participants will also consider the reasons why violence is so prevalent in their communities and be encouraged to take a more proactive approach in discussing emotions and dealing with issues of anger.
Success & Discipline
This workshop deals with the importance of having discipline in our lives and how it can lead to success. Discipline does not automatically make someone a leader, but no one can long remain a leader without it. More leaders have failed from poor discipline than poor policies. More religious leaders have failed due to bad discipline than bad theology. More business leaders have sabotaged their careers from lack of discipline than lack of cash flow.
Raising The Bar
This workshop addresses the importance of participants “Raising The Bar” for success for themselves and the next generation by assisting them to move beyond mediocrity and low expectations for success in life. Tips on how to be successful and move ahead with a purpose in life are shared with participants.
Healthy Relationships
The choices individuals make in the area of relationships can be some of the most important and life-altering decisions they will ever make. This workshop will look at the consequences and the warning signs of unhealthy relationships and will help participants learn the steps toward having healthy relationships
Taking Care of business
Keep Pushing The Stone!
Embrace the Future
Life will provide you with plenty of opportunities to quit or give up.
Imagine life is a hill and the stone represents your struggles, heartaches, pains and tribulations. You have three choices. You can stop pushing the stone and eventually it will roll back over you. You can rest while pushing the stone and it will take twice the energy to get it moving again. The final choice is to keep pushing the stone until you reach the top.
The Connection
I developed interactive presentations while working on my Thesis (The impact of absentee Fathers through death, incarceration and abandonment) and years of research.
My work includes working with School Districts, Churches,organizations, families, youth and women.
My book "When Grown Men Play Hide & Seek" shares my thesis research and a road map on how to become the leader, role model, father and men you were created to be.
Being a husband and father are two of the most rewarding and challenging endeavors in life I have encountered. However, with the grace of God, a willingness to learn and a strong desire to be the best husband and Father I could I have experienced success in both areas. Thirty plus years of marriage and three college graduates I have a great testimony to share.
Accentuate The Positive
Accentuate The Positive is my weekly Radio Broadcast on spiritualconnectradio.com that allows me to reach into various communities throughout the country with a message of purpose and self value.
Monday evenings 8 pm - 9:30 pm.